I'm the happiest when mum laughs heartily. She brought / raised the 3 of us single-handedly. She have strong / heavy favouritism among the children. That made me, the middle kid, so called "2nd child syndrome" most independence. I'm glad of all the tough love from mum, though her division of love is not healthy. (Memory collected at the Serangoon Public Library during the "The Singapore Story: My Heart, My Hope, My Home" campaign from 6 Sep to 31 Dec 2012)